Sunday, May 17, 2009

I suck at keeping ya'll in the loop!

New visa interview date: June 9! I'm just glad it wasn't too far in the future. That would have killed me if their next appointment was in August or something ridiculous.

I left Italy May 27 (I was supposed to leave May 26), so it's been almost a year. An entire freaking year. That's just way, WAY too long.

Plans as of now are that once his visa gets approved, he'll work for a few weeks to give them time to find a replacement. Then, his parents will come to Italy to visit him and then once they leave, he'll come here. Originally, he was going to go to Tunisia to visit, but realizes that he'll have to be down there a long time. He wants us to go together after we get settled here. We'll see how that goes!

There is a slight possibility that I'll go to Italy this summer to meet his Mom and Dad before he comes here. We'll see. I don't have the money for it, but if it's important to him, we might just have to find the money. I'd love to go to Italy again for a little while anyway. It'd be a whirlwind tour of me seeing some things in Firenze and then going up to Pordenone to visit his sister and Mom and Dad. We'd have to take the same flight back to America because I don't think I'd be able to leave him in Italy again. So, we'll just have to see.

I've had a rough few days of just missing him so incredibly much it feels like my heart is being ripped out of my chest. I have these days and I've just learned to live with them. Certain people get the blunt end of that though and end up with me crying for no reason. There's a guy at work that I've become good friends with that reminds me so much of Bil it's almost scary. He gets it a lot and I think because he reminds me so much of him.

As a random sidenote: I'm getting spam comments "Diet Plan" but they actually look like they read my post. Odd. Stop talking to me "Diet Plan."

6 comments:

dmh said...

Can I come to Italy with you this summer? I have nothing else to do.

see you in a bit!

Toni Toni Toni said...

You can, if you don't mind one night alone (it's been a year) and then a few nights with Bil's family.

dmh said...

You can have lots of nights alone, I'll play with that beautiful baby.

Brandi said...

your not crying for no reason-you're crying for a damn good reason in my opinion!

and I'm glad he's got an interview date coming up pretty quickly.
:-)

Toni Toni Toni said...

Thanks Brandi...and you're right.

I'm glad too!

Hagelrat said...

Toni Big hugs to you, must have been a long year for you.